4 responses to “Negativity”

  1. Izzy Avatar
    Izzy

    Reading this makes me feel as if people create their own drama and negativity. Sometimes you have to not just get away from that type of behavior but also to not create it. As I have grown through my divorce and a very difficult time. I had to own my own stuff. Even though I was cheated on and left basically homeless I had to own my own stuff before I could move on. Because removing myself from the negativity and drama left me feeling empty and alone. Dealing with it and owning it left me free to move on with my new life and love.

    1. Robin Avatar
      Robin

      Thank you for sharing your story.
      I agree completely that people can create there own negativity and drama.
      I also believe there is a difference between owning your stuff and sinking into the darkness of negative situations;
      whether created by yourself or others.
      We don’t want to become a sinking ship, where we take ourselves and everyone we know down with us.
      It’s a much better life if we can rise above and uplift ourselves and those around us.
      There are definitely growing periods where we have to recognize, acknowledge, and take responsibility for our own actions and our lives.
      But we also have the choice to come at that from a higher perspective, without causing and creating our own prison. Without playing the victim or pushing blame onto others.
      Dealing with it and owning it can be difficult to do, and not always easy to see.
      The fact that you were able to recognize your part is half the battle. That shows your strength and level of personal growth. That’s great!!
      Thank you for reaching out. I wish you much luck on your journey.

  2. Pat Avatar
    Pat

    I think your post was great, but your reply to Izzy was spot on! Great job!

    1. Robin Avatar
      Robin

      Thank you Pat! I appreciate the feedback.

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