10 responses to “Daddy Issues”

  1. Mia Hirsch Avatar

    I can definitely relate to some of the things you shared. It takes a lot to forgive and move on. Life will hand us new opportunities for healing. He missed my entire childhood and wonderfully enough we were able to connect in later years, but the sting of his absence is still there. I wish you ongoing healing and a great life.

    1. Robin Avatar
      Robin

      Mia, very honest, humbling and positive. I am happy to hear you have reconnected. Hoping that sting will lessen as you continue your acceptance, forgiveness and healing. Self worth begins and ends with you. I wish you all the best also!

  2. Cyndi Anderson Avatar

    What a beautiful tribute to your father. Thank you for sharing.

    1. Robin Avatar
      Robin

      Cyndi, Hmmm…ummm, thank you? I’m curious on the way you read the story..I always appreciate feedback!

  3. Anne Avatar

    It is so true that the father daughter relationship is crucial. This gave me a lot to think about as my husband and I raise our four girls. Thanks for sharing your experience.

    1. Robin Avatar
      Robin

      Anne, thank you for your comment! I am so pleased you got something from this. That relationship is crucial. Your daughters will thrive with the love of both their parents. Wishing you and your family all the best!

  4. Tayloe Avatar

    Great post! I have 3 girls and was in a bitter divorce when they were very young. I’ve done the best I know how to try and be there for them as a non custodial parent and we have a great relationship now, some 30 years later! It was enlightening to hear your point of view. Thank you!

    1. Robin Avatar
      Robin

      Tayloe, thank you for your comment. I am so happy that things worked out for you and your daughters. It doesn’t matter when, all that matters is you got there! That is truly wonderful!

  5. Loniesha Avatar

    As a girl who didn’t have their biological father in my life until AFTER I was an adult (because of his own choices), I can relate to this on a deep level. I struggled with the thought of choosing his other kids and never me. I started to grow a resentment towards him. And even though he’s “here” now, I still haven’t reached the point of forgiveness yet. But you’ve def made me think of how to forgive for the right reasons. Thank you.

    1. Robin Avatar
      Robin

      Loniesha, Thank you for sharing your story. I’m glad you were able to get something out of this post. It was a struggle for me for a lot of my life. I can see where it would be for you too. We can grow from everything. I hope you do find the forgiveness and acceptance for your own peace. Much love on your own healing journey.

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