A Guarded Girl

Life brings us challenges and lessons and moments that may harden us or cause us to throw up walls.

We learn to protect our hearts.

We become independent and rely on our own abilities and resources.

We realize that everything we need is within us, not out “there”.

We become very particular in what or whom we allow into our world.

 

If we can use this as a strength, and still keep our hearts open,

and come at life from a place of being complete, rather than from lack or need,

we may find that our life is filled with choices and desires,

rather than desperation to fill an empty void.

 

When people and things of substance come our way,

we can recognize true potential, rather than settling for bread crumbs and hopes for potential.

 

We can be choosy, because we don’t need anyone.

We choose them.

And if we choose them, then they must know,

to be let into the heart of a guarded girl,

is not a decision to be taken lightly.

We see you, and you are worth it!

Finding someone that makes us want to break down our walls,

is an undeniable feeling.

It is raw, beautiful and the purest love of all.

We have so much love to give, we just have no desire in wasting it on someone that can’t hold it and cherish it.

 

So be independent.

Be picky.

Be complete.

Be guarded, but keep our hearts open.

 

Be open to choosing what we want, not out of need, but out of desire. And watch how a whole new world of healthy, so much better for us, choices open up!

 

In love and light!